"grow up"

"grow up" is usually some thing someone says when they dont like what you are doing.
I used to be so focused on "growing up" even though I had no idea what it meant.
I just wanted to grow up and please everyone by doing everything right.

Then I learned that "growing up" and becoming an "adult" is not something that can even be done. No one knows what it means. Everyone has different ideas on the subject. So, my goal changed. I no longer want to "grow up" But I wish to become Godly.

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks I should be as "grown up" It only matters that I do my best to be as Christ. That is true maturity... Being Christ-like.